Jan
17
Posted (admin) in Uncategorized on January-17-2008

Human surrounds this need every criticism and the reprimand inflicts the unpleasantness. He holds up before the expressing the opinions which are not approve of universally. He avoids enemies; doing many things only after this maximally he tries to bear good relations with different people, for every price, “to avoid criticisms so that nobody says that he behaves selfishly about him”.

One need this directs to he “appears in intensive surviving the feeling of the fault, he thinks suppression, remembrances awaking such feeling” inside. One need avoidance of the psychical injury he joins with the needs of nourishment the most often and looking after or forming an association, meanwhile he falls with the needs of exhibitionism in the sharpest conflicts, purchasing, domination and autonomy.

One need avoidance of the psychical injury in own eyes.

She is also called the need of avoidance of inferiority. Typical characteristic feelings for this need this feeling of inferiority, bother, the embarrassment, nervousness, surviving the shame and after unsuccessful acting. The man fears the all situations in which he should approve oneself any abilities or skills. He avoids workings in the fear before because of this. He runs away in the disease often, and tries to forget for every price about experiences from the past. One need this unites oneself with the needs of excusing herself, exhibitionism and humiliating herself. Similar conflicts as in the previous case, that is avoidance of the psychical injury from the side of different.

One need demeaning.

The composed man usually is this need “humble, prone
in failures to accusing oneself (…), in waltzes ready to surrender;
in the presence of the people who embarrassed, nervous
and anxious finds than oneself more important (…) he feels owing in the most various matters and then prone is to apologizing and surrendering. This is one word the prone individual to humiliating itself diminishing its advantages and contributions continually; the not having the hope on the better future; giving up the change of this situation. He is dominated by different, more aggressive individuals, forces by not to definite behaviours and workings”.

One need this comes in in the fusion with the needs of care and support, exhibitionism, sexual. He creates conflicts with the needs of the safety the most often and forming an association.

One need accomplishments.

One need this depends in the large measure on perfectionism, that is doing all how the most quickly and as the best and the ambition, enough defeat this more and more new difficulties, place cross -beam more and more high, accept and win the rivalry. Man such “many time spends on creating the projects of the own great career. He excites him and heats to the working the hope of future great successes”.

One need this joins from “every the different need, which gives content having be the object of the achievement. He comes in conflicts with the need of humiliating himself, safety, party, forming an association, exhibitionism”.

One need forming an association (joining).

The man needs to different people life - this is the kind of the life motto for people acting the need of forming an association. They try to spend the maximum of the time in the company of different: they work in the group, play and sadden, survive else’s worries and joy, win friends easily to oneself, for they’re for them to dedicate one’s plans in the state; injuries always avoid different, they take over their point of the sight often. They’re always in the company bright and polite. Partings are the true disaster for them. One need forming an association in the everyday life he can be satisfied for help of such gestures how: gives the hand, stands up near the different person, kisses, hugging.

One need this comes in fusions with the need of purchasing, sexual the most often, care
and support. In conflicts however - with the need of the achievement, the throwing aside, aggressiveness, predominating, autonomy.


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